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The ["Comment and Discussion"](#comment) section is, I therefore assume, a Catholic response to Schmemann's article. +--- + +ALEXANDER SCHMEMANN* + +\* Dean of St. Vladimir’s Theological Seminary, Tuckahoe, New York. Father Schmemann is the author of *Sacraments and Orthodoxy* (1965), and *The World as Sacrament* (1967). + +## [I.](#I) {#I} + +I must begin this paper by stating the initial paradox of +the Eastern Orthodox approach toward marriage. On the +one hand, the Orthodox Church explicitly affirms the +indissolubility of marriage;[^1] yet, on the other hand, she +seems to accept divorce and has in her canonical tradition +several regulations concerning it.[^2] +How can these apparently contradictory positions be reconciled? And, first of +all, what does this paradox mean? Is it an uneasy compromise +between the maximalism of theory and the minimalism of practice, that famous “economy” which the +Orthodox seem to invoke so often in order to solve all +kinds of difficulties? I think that no answer can be given +to any of these questions before an attempt is made to +understand the complexity of the Orthodox teaching about +marriage. + +[^1]: See F. Gavin, *Some Aspects of Contemporary Greek Orthodox Thought* (London, 1923), pp. 384 ff.; Bishop Sylvester, *Orthodox Dogmatic Theology*, 4 vols. (Kiev, 1897), pp. 539 ff. + +[^2]: N. Suvorov, *Kurs Tserkovnago Prava* (Manual of Canon Law), (Yaroslave, 1889), II, 331 ff. + +A western Christian may not realize that this teaching +has never taken the form of a consistent and systematic +doctrine in which the liturgical rites, the canonical +requirements, the theological interpretations and finally the +demands of reality would be expressed within a unified +framework. Does it mean, however, that there is no +Orthodox doctrine of marriage, doctrine which would in turn +serve as a norm for practice? No! But it means that this +doctrine has not been given a “juridical” formulation and +remains, as much of Eastern Orthodox theology in general, +in the state of affirmations rather than explanations, is +expressed more often in liturgical rites rather than canonical +texts, and finally, serves as a guiding principle rather +than explicit legislation. + +The starting point for any elucidation of this doctrine is, +of necessity, in the Orthodox understanding of matrimony +as *sacrament*. Here one must keep in mind that in the +Orthodox Church, sacramental theology has never been +formulated in clear and precise definitions as in the West. +It is true that in postpatristic manuals of dogmatics much +of the western approach to sacraments has been rather +uncritically adopted. This “westernized” theology, however, +so obviously contradicts the earlier and more normative +Orthodox tradition, that of the Fathers and of the liturgy, +that it cannot be accepted as an adequate expression of +the Orthodox “lex credendi.” When speaking of the +sacrament of matrimony, we must, therefore, see it within a +wider perspective of the Orthodox meaning of sacraments +in general. + +It is sufficient for our present subject to stress that the +sacrament or *mysterion* in the Orthodox tradition implies +necessarily the idea of a *transformation*, of a “*passage*” +from the old into the new and, therefore, an eschatological +connotation.[^3] The sacrament is always the passage from +“this world” into the Kingdom of God as already +inaugurated by Christ, and of which the Church herself is +the “sacrament” in “this eon.” Thus, in the baptismal +death and resurrection, man is not simply absolved of his +original sin but is truly “transferred” from the old creation +into the new. In the sacrament of anointment, he is +introduced into the Kingdom inaugurated on the day of Pente- +cost by the Holy Spirit. In the Eucharist the Church +fulfills herself by ascending to the Kingdom of God, to “His +table in His Kingdom.” All sacraments are considered +eschatological in the sense that they manifest and +communicate in this world the reality of the world to come. +Hence, and this is the second important observation, all +sacraments are fulfilled in the Eucharist which, according +to the patristic teaching, is the “sacrament of sacraments” +because it is in a very concrete sense the sacrament of the +Kingdom. Finally, all sacraments are truly sacraments of +Christ, i.e., are ontologically connected with his death, +resurrection and glorification. + +[^3]: See my book *Sacraments and Orthodoxy* (New York, 1965). + +How are these categories applicable to matrimony +which, different in this from all other sacraments, does not +seem to be directly and immediately connected with the +“Christ event” and which exists as a universal and natural +institution outside the Church? The answer to this +question is given partially at least in the liturgical celebration +of matrimony. + +## [II.](#II) {#II} + +The present liturgy of matrimony in the Orthodox +Church consists of two services—the Betrothal and the +Crowning—the first service taking place normally in the +vestibule of the church and the second, having primarily +the form of a procession which introduces the couple into +the Church. We may leave out of this paper the +description of the complex development of these services and +the various strata of symbolism with which they were +adorned on the liturgically fertile soil of Byzantium.[^4] Let +us rather concentrate on the fundamental significance of +this peculiar “liturgical dualism” of matrimony. + +[^4]: See A. Raes, SJ., *Le Mariage dans les Eglises d Orient* (Chevotogne, 1958). + +There can be no doubt that the first service—the +Betrothal—is nothing else than the Christianized form of the +marriage as it existed always and everywhere, ie., as a +public contract sealed before God and men by those +entering the state of marriage. It is, in other terms, the +Christian “blessing” or “sanction” of the marriage, its +acceptance by the Church. It appears rather late in the +history of the Church and at a time when for all practical +reasons the civil society coincided with the Church and +when the Church was given an almost exclusive control +over family. In the early pre-Constantinian Church, the +only requirement for the members of the Church who +wanted to marry was the preliminary permission of the +bishop.[^5] This means that the Church did not consider +herself to be the performer of the marriage as such and early +documents stress the recognition by the Church of all +civil laws governing the marriage.[^6] But if the Church did +not “institute” the marriage, she was given the power to +“transform it” and such is the real meaning of +*matrimony as sacrament*. “Lo, I make all things new”: this from the +beginning was also applied to marriage. And, it is this +“transformation” of the marriage that constitutes the +content of the second service mentioned above—the Crowning +—which begins precisely as all Christian sacraments with +a procession. The procession signifies that the “natural” +marriage is taken now into the dimensions of the Church +and, this means, into the dimensions of the Kingdom. The +earliest form of this service was the simple participation +of the newly married in the Encharist and their partaking +as “one flesh” of the Body and Blood of Christ.[^7] Even +today, though it has severed its connection with the +Eucharist, the rite of matrimony keeps the indelible mark +of its Eucharistic origin and the common cup given to +the couple at the end of the service points back to the +Eucharistic chalice.[^8] + +[^5]: St. Ignatius, *Ad Polycarpum*, 5 v. + +[^6]: See for example, *Epistola ad Diognetum*, v. 6; Athenagoras, *Lecatio Pro Christianis*, chap. 33, Migne, *PG* 6, 965; Ambrose, *De Inst. Virg.*, 6, Migne, *PL*, 16, 316; John Chrysostom, *Hom 56 in Genes*, 29, *PG* 54, 488. + +[^7]: See A. N. Smirensky, “The Evolution of the Present Rite of Matrimony and Parallel Canonical Developments,” *St. Viadimir's Seminary Quarterly*, 8 (1960), 40, n. 1. + +[^8]: See A. Raes, *op. cit.*, p. 49. + +In this sacramental transformation, the marriage +acquires new dimensions. Its content and goal now is not +mere “happiness” but the *martyria*, the witness, to the +Kingdom of God. It is given the power to be a service of +Christ in the world and a special vocation within the +Church. Above everything else it is a sacrament of the +Kingdom, for the family is one of the basic *antitypa* of the +Kingdom.[^9] + +[^9]: See *Sacraments and Orthodoxy*, pp. 59 ff. + +The whole patristic tradition deals with matrimony +almost exclusively in these categories in which the marriage +is connected with the great mystery of Christ and the +Church.[^10] This tradition, in other terms, is interested in +the marriage as transformed and fulfilled in Christ and +the Church—this transformation being also the fulfillment +of the natural marriage. It deals, so to speak, with the +ideal marriage which has died to its natural limitations +and has risen to a new life in which it is totally +transparent to Christ and to His Kingdom. This marriage, it is +obvious, is indissoluble and the very categories of +dissolubility or indissolubility simply do not apply to it. It +transcends them because by its very nature it is already a +transformed and transfigured marriage. And, in a certain +way, it is only such marriage that the Church teaches and +reflects upon and, in a sense, only such marriage is +recognized by her and it is only to such marriage that her +positive evaluation of matrimony is referred. An example of +this can be seen in the canonical regulations forbidding +the ordination of all those whose marriage is not +“perfect,” i.e., first and unique on both sides. The marriage, +thus, belongs to the *theologia gloriae* as in fact a part of +ecclesiology and eschatology. The Church rejoices, so to +speak, in this foretaste and anticipation of the Kingdom +of God. + +[^10]: See A. Raes, *op. cit.*, p. 8 and also S. Troitsky, *Christianskaia Philosophia Braka* (Christian Philosophy of Marriage), (Paris, 1934). + +## [III.](#III) {#III} + +There exists, however, another dimension of the +marriage—this one rooted in the pastoral mission of the +Church in the world. If the fundamental doctrine, or +better to say, *theoria*, vision of the marriage, as still expressed +in the liturgy, belongs to the early, maximalistic and +eschatological period of the Church, this second dimension +is the fruit and the result of the long and painful +pilgrimage of the Church through history. It would be +improper to describe it as a lowering of the standards and +as compromise with all kinds of “real situations.” For it +belongs to the very essence of the Eastern Orthodox +tradition to keep together, in a truly antinomical way, on the +one hand the “impossible” demands on man—demands +that entered the world when God became man so as to +“make man God”; and on the other hand the infinite +compassion toward man of the One who took upon Himself +the sins of the world. Regarding marriage, it is as if, in +one and the same breath, the Church were proclaiming +its Divine nature and destiny, yet also, its existential +ambiguity—the marriage as one of the major battlefields +between the good and the evil, between God and the +devil, between the New Adam and the old; marriage as +inexorably rooted in the tragedy of the original sin. The +Church keeps the glorious vision revealed to her by +Christ; she gives the gift to all, but she also *knows* the +“impossibility” for man fully to accept both the vision +and the gift. Just as in the Eucharist the Church, while +inviting her members to communicate says: “Holy things +are for the holy,” shows that only “One is Holy,” the +maximalism of the Church’s revelation about marriage is +precisely that which makes her condescending to the +unfathomable tragedies of human existence. + +The whole point therefore is that this is not a +“compromise” but the very antinomy of the Church’s life in this +world. The marriage *is* indissoluble, yet it is being +dissolved all the time by sin and ignorance, passion and +selfishness, lack of faith and lack of love. Yes, the Church +acknowledges the divorce, but she *does not divorce!* She +only acknowledges that here, in this concrete situation, +this marriage has been broken, has come to an end, and +in her compassion she gives permission to the innocent +party to marry again. It is sufficient, however, to study +only once the text of the rite of the second marriage to +realize immediately the radical difference of its whole +“ethos.” It is indeed a penitential service, it is +intercession, it is love, but nothing of the glory and joy of that +which has been broken remains.[^11] + +[^11]: See Hapgood, *Orthodox Service Book*, pp. 302 ff. + +In practice, all this may be deeply misunderstood. +During the long centuries of the Church’s organic connection +with Christian states, she had to accept many functions +and duties, if not contrary, at least alien, to her nature.[^12] +This has been reflected in the liturgy and in ecclesiastical +legislation and requires a detailed and patient study. If, +however, one asks about the “essence” of the Orthodox +teaching about marriage, one finds it in this apparently +paradoxical tension—its belonging to Christ and His +Kingdom and, therefore, its indissolubility on the one hand +and the pastoral recognition of its human frailty and +ambiguity on the other hand. Only within this tension a +fruitful study of the Orthodox concept and practice of +both marriage and divorce becomes possible. + +[^12]: See A, N. Smirensky, *op. cit.* + +# [COMMENT AND DISCUSSION](#comment) {#comment} + +The ancient Christian traditions of the East converge with +the belief of the Catholic West in a common affirmation of the +sacramental holiness of marriage. In the plan of redemption +the earthly reality of marriage has been transformed in Christ +into an image, an icon, of the union of Christ with the Church. +Man and wife are joined in a permanent relationship to each +other that transcends the limitations of natural compatibility as +a witness of the fidelity of the Lord to His people. In this +perspective divorce and remarriage are more than a failure +of personal commitment. They are a tragedy for the Church, +the broken pieces of a holy ideal shattered by sin and human +weakness. + +The pastoral concern of the Church for the tragedy of +broken marriage is to respond to human frailty with healing +forgiveness. In the Christianity of the East, this forgiveness +implies permission to marry again. The Church neither grants nor +acknowledges divorce, but to the lonely and abandoned it +sorrowfully grants the right to take another spouse. For the +person and for the Church this is a penitential recognition of +the harsh reality of sin and the deep need for God’s grace. +The liturgical form of the second marriage itself expresses the +paradox of sin and grace in the words of an antinomy that +encapsulates the very life of the Church itself. For the Church’s +role in the world is a constant reconciliation of opposites, the +glory of ideals *in statu Patriae* and the reality of sin *in statu viae*. + +The theology of marriage, its liturgical expression and +canonical discipline belong to the area of antinomy. It is +precisely in the acceptance of the consequences of this antinomy +in the life of the Church that there is to be found the greatest +difference between Orthodox and Latin belief. Between +Oriental and Latin traditions the most fundamental discrepancy +does not lie in the interpretation of the exceptions of Matthew’s +Gospel or even in the understanding of sacramentality in +regard to marriage. Rather, it is to be found in diverse +conceptions of the nature and role of the Church in the world. + +In Byzantine eclesiology the life of the Church moves +constantly upon two different levels of reality. The dichotomy of +the Kingdom of God revealed and present in a yet unredeemed +and sinful world gives rise to a conflict of opposites that +belongs to the very nature of the Church. Within this context +there exists the parallel development of theological reflection +upon the sacramental indissolubility of marriage and the +canonical provisions designed to meet its failure. There is a +theology of marriage as a reflection of the Kingdom and a +juridical counterpart mirroring human weakness. + +Three main stages mark the historical evolution of the +Oriental Church’s approach to marriage and divorce. In the +primitive Church we find a basic acceptance of marriage as it +existed in the world. The writings of St. Ignatius of Antioch +portray a bishop living among his people and uniting them into +one community in Christ. He knew the faithful and brought the +blessings of the Church to them at every personal change in +the status of their lives. It is not clear that St. Ignatius speaks +of a sacramental action in the blessing of marriage, but his +words fit into an ecclesiological concept in which all +sacraments are involved in the one sacrament of the Church. The +holiness of marriage lies within the holiness of the Church, It is +the Church that transforms life and marriage. But first the +Church had to accept and bless the life that existed. She had +first to accept the worldly reality of marriage. + +In the pre-Constantinian Church we find an acceptance of +marriage as it existed in Roman society, including all the +regulations and customs of marriage prevailing at that time. +At the same time the great effort to proclaim the Kingdom of +God effected a gradual transformation of society. Within the +community of the Church all things are made new. Marriage +came to have a new meaning for the baptized in relationship +to the central and allembracing reality of the Eucharist. +Marriage received the acknowledgment of the bishop as the +head of the community of the faithful. With this came the +gradual integration of matrimony into the constitutional act +of the Church, the holy Eucharist. + +Then came the great and tragic confusion created by the +reconciliation between the Church and the empire. On the +one hand it was a glorious triumph for the Church. On the +other it created enormous problems for both Church and +state. An extremely complex semi-Christian society provided +an environment for a disconcerting mixture of roles. At this +time the Church had not yet developed its own specific system +of canonical legislation. It made every effort, however, to +influence the civil legislation by Christian principles. The state +sanctioned the canons of the councils as state laws, but the +Church did not sanction state law as canons. The Church’s +legislation was integrated into civil legislation, but civil +legislation was never to become a part of the Church. + +Between Church and state there was a hesitant and uneasy +balance. The Church saw itself as the Body of Christ and the +temple of the Holy Spirit. Yet to the state it was mainly a +society, a corporation, a visibly structured organization. The +conversion of Constantine, real as it was, was still completely +within the pagan presuppositions of conversion. The Edict of +Milan was not a Christian document. It was a typically +syncretistic pragmatic gesture. The more Constantine became +Christian the more intolerant he became. By the end of the +century Theodosius said that everyone who was not a Christian +was a mental case and should be burned. This is far from the +freedom in which the Church rejoiced at the Edict of Milan. + +The Church’s teachings on marriage could not be imposed +upon the state in their entirety, because the reality of greatest +concern to the Church lies beyond the province of the state. +What occurred was a gradual effort to transform society in +general and, in so doing, bring to bear upon the law a strong +moral influence. Divorce became more and more difficult to +obtain. Women moved up the social ladder to a greater equality +with men. Fundamentally, however, the tension continued to +exist between the human reality and the Christian ideal. +Marriage was one of many great sectors of society to be +Christianized, transformed and introduced to new dimensions of +‘meaning, But this was only possible within the Church and not +within the logic of civil legislation. + +The third stage occurred when the Church, in the person +of bishop or priest, became the minister of marriage. In a +vacuum of leadership, the Church received the total +responsibility for the familial sector of social life. Born of this necessity +were the purely temporal dimensions of the Church's dealings +with civil and societal realities. It seems that the Church was +almost forced to take on functions that do not naturally belong +to it. Christianity assumed the role of the pagan state religions +of the old empire. The Church was given a responsibility by +the state to fulfill a civil role in society in regulating the +temporal life of man. At this stage the sacramental view of +marriage began to be translated into canonical prescriptions. +The notion of the indissolubility of marriage took on extensive +juridical implications. + +Looking back upon this era, Orthodox theology makes a +distinction between the disciplinary tradition of the Church +as a whole and the various canonical traditions of the +particular churches. Reasons for divorce and remarriage changed, +were expanded or restricted by the different national churches +at various times in history. But the Church itself always looked +upon divorce with the greatest reluctance. It always sought +to distinguish a temporal responsibility on the level of social +relationships from its essential role in integrating man into +the Kingdom. The Church felt no basic need to exercise judicial +authority in the temporal order. Its primary task was to refer +temporal life to the order of revelation and sacramentality. + +Today the Church no longer controls the destinies of civil +socicty. It no longer exercises a purely social jurisdiction. But in +the present stage of transition, it still acts as if it must cling +to that power and responsibility. The Church still feels the +weight of an ancient responsibility for all temporal +arrangements. Within the ambiguities of this situation, Orthodox +practice now wavers between the Byzantine or Russian +imperial legislation on what constitutes grounds for divorce and +the legal rules of the states and nations in which she lives. + +The ambiguity of the Church’s stance between a theology +that stresses the indissolubility of marriage and the canonical +practice that allows dissolubility is not to be understood as a +compromise with the world. It is precisely the lot of the Church +in the world. Sin is not a juridical crime. It is a rebellion against +God. The Church confronts the reality of sin both *in statu Patriae*, +from which stems her teachings and eschatological +orientation, and *in statu viae*, from which comes her pastoral +concern for man. + +Within Orthodox tradition there is no such thing as divorce. +The Church can no more remove the sacramentality of a +marriage than she can remove the consecration from the +Eucharistic Host. The Church simply grants the right to +remarry in certain cases. What about the previous marriage? The +ontological status of that first marriage is simply never made +a matter of question. To ask the question supposes a static +view of reality. Within the dynamic action attributed to the +Holy Spirit by Orthodox theology, marriage can exist only +while people actually live a marriage. If the marriage is not +lived, it is dead. It is nothing. The real problem is not the +abstract, Aristotelian essence that might remain, but what is to be +done in pastoral terms with the existing situation. This is where +the mechanics of canonical procedure in allowing remarriage +are rooted. + +The basic question today is not how to delineate various +new juridical reasons to allow divorce and remarriage. It is +rather the question of what constitutes the sacramentality of +marriage and how close does this sacramentality constitute +a reality that can be expressed in juridical terms. What is the +relationship between what can be described as the maximum +of the Church’s teaching, which is not only an ideal, but the +revelation of the true ontology of marriage and the real +situation of man? + +Is the dialectic between indissolubility and dissolubility just +a matter of toleration or rather a category of tension which has +to be kept if the Church is to fulfill her mission among men? +Unless we ask the most basic questions about the nature of +marriage and its relationship to the mission of the Church, the +very sensitive question of divorce and remarriage will not be +solved. The whole complicated development of the Church’s +teaching on marriage is one expression of her fundamental +relationship to the world. It is only from a study of this relationship +in which the problem is truly rooted that a solution can be +found. + +In Orthodox tradition sacrament or “mysterion” implies +necessarily the idea of a transformation, a passage from the +old into a new dimension of both meaning and reality. The +Church’s salvific mission to the world is fulfilled in a presence +to the world in as far as the world can be transformed and has +to be transformed by it. The world is not something wholly +separated from the Church. It is the very matter of the +Kingdom. In this sense, marriage is transformed by the Church and +in the Church, while divorce remains a part of the morality +of the world. It is a morality that the Church cannot be +indifferent to or spurn. She must not only be interested in the +morality of the world but must also transform it to a new +reality. + +Dr. Noonan's paper concluded quite convincingly that some +Christians considered marriage dissoluble at a particular time +in history. He did not go beyond this premise to generalize +upon this practice of the Church as being decisive for a later +period. “It has been done for two hundred years in the past. +Therefore, it can be done today” was not his conclusion. This +type of argumentation would run counter to the reality of +growth inherent in the nature of man and religion. It would be +a type of legal positivism foreign to Christianity. + +Morality develops into a greater refinement of norms and +a greater perceptiveness of judgment from reflection upon the +existing situation of man in the light of primary principles. At +one time slavery was accepted by Scripture, by tradition and +by the Church. But today no one can consider slavery morally +acceptable or even indifferent. The argument that it was +accepted at one time does not prove that it can be accepted +again. The Church moves with history and adjusts itself to +developing human reality. As with the eventual rejection of +slavery, so in the understanding of marriage there may be an +evolution from an acceptance of dissolubility to belief in its +absolute indissolubility. The ultimate criterion will not be the +practice of the past, but the meaning of Christian marriage +in the light of the real human situation today. + +On the other hand, the argument from the *praxis ecclesiae* +does have a negative value. Development cannot imply +contradiction. The Church is based upon a revelation and an +institution in which tradition is implied. The *quod traditur* is an +essential element in a revealed religion. To be Christian means +to be traditional because tradition belongs to the +revealed religion. So there exists the antinomy of developing +human nature that precludes a happening of one time from +being normative for all time and the need to study history to +find the negative limit beyond which contradiction excludes +continuity. The problem of tradition is closely connected with +the meaning of the theology of real development in doctrine. + +We cannot say that at one time the Church believed one +thing and at a later time she believed another in contradiction +to it. The Church, in fact, in the early period was largely +unconcerned with the institutional expressions of society. +However, from the very beginning she had a notion of man, a +notion of society and a notion of the destiny of man, which +ultimately excluded the possibility of man’s being enslaved. +Again, the Church had from the beginning, in the New +Testament and in the Fathers, an intuition, an understanding, a +vision of marriage as indissoluble. Yet this vision could not be +made an immediate practical possibility because of the +extremely adverse social conditions of the time. The teaching had +to develop gradually. It was only at the time of the Emperor +Leo VI in the tenth century that matrimony as a liturgical +service was made obligatory for all Christians of the empire. +This became the pastoral and missionary means of the Church +to reach the people. Legislation prior to this time was mainly +concerned with problems of regulating marriage and divorce. +Now it became a question of how to impose upon the people +the Christian view of marriage. The liturgical form developed +as a teaching of what marriage should be. Christian history +shows the explicitation, not the change, of a particular truth. +There is a slow and patient evolution within society that brings +about a real development. + +When we study the past, we study it not only in the effort +to see how many metamorphoses took place, but how certain +basic ideas—God, man, history, world, nature—developed and +were refined. It would be a catastrophe if today we suddenly +proclaimed, as a kind of ecumenical achievement, that whereas +in the past we had thought of marriage as indissoluble, today +we all agree that it is dissoluble. On the other hand, to simply +maintain the old tradition of absolute indissolubility would be +equally intolerable. We are moving today, not in the direction +of a liberation of marriage from medieval conceptualizations, +but rather toward a deepening awareness of what has always +been central in the belief of the Church, regardless of the +inadequacy of the juridical or philosophical categories in which +it has been expressed. For almost two thousand years, the +Church has proclaimed that marriage is sacred and +indissoluble. Yet all the while she has reluctantly accepted its +dissolution to some extent as a tragic human failure. + +There will always be a clash between the Kingdom and the +world, the ideal and the exception, the eschatological hope +and the reality. This dialectic between lofty goal and the +reluctant acceptance of failure must maintain a proper balance +in order that a real development may occur. Where the +dialectic is ignored or overemphasis is given only one side, ultimately +the impasse results in stagnation. Both sides of the dialectic +have a role. St. Paul said that in the Kingdom “there is neither +male nor female,” yet he treated women in the same category +as children and slaves. The role of women in the Church +suffered in the imbalance of the latter perspective. It is only +when we explore more fully the reasons why St. Paul +enunciated the fundamental equality that a restoration of balance +can be achieved. In similar fashion, between ideal and +exception the imbalance resulting from an overemphasis upon +the ideal will be corrected by exploring the implications of the +human reality that makes exception possible. + +In the theology of marriage of the Eastern traditions the +primary point of departure is not the natural properties of +marriage, but the supernatural union that it images. In the +liturgy of matrimony the last act of the rite is the coronation: +“Now receive these crowns in God’s Kingdom.” In its ultimate +reality marriage is not measured by its current cultural +acceptance. It is an icon of the Kingdom. Marriage transcends +happiness. It transcends contract and even the family. But +having defined marriage in these supernatural terms, +Orthodoxy still remembers the natural dimension of marriage. The +tension between the two exists and is inescapable. It is +important, however, that the starting point of understanding +begin, and not end, with revelation. The modern reduction of +marriage to happiness and sexual fulfillment to which the +Church may add a transcendent demand is not adequate. For +Christians marriage is primarily a union witnessing the union +of Christ and the Church. + +At the time of the revival of the study of Roman Law which +inspired the science of canon law in the Western Church, a +juridical conceptualization overtook the personal and +theological vision of marriage. The canonical conception came to center +upon consent and copula, instead of divine mystery and human +relationships. With this came a canonical refinement of the +conditions for the validity of the marital contract. Rather than +the *consortium totius vitae* of an earlier humanism or the +“mysterion” of the Fathers, marriage came to be equated with +contractual obligations and rights. A whole machinery was +set up in the Latin Church to adjudicate the validity of +marriages according to the canonical definition of a unique +contract giving the right to bodily acts of reproduction. In an +effort to achieve legal clarity, both the personal elements of +this unique relationship and the supernatural context of +mystery were pushed to the background. Consequently, where we +in the Church should be speaking of the common life of two +spouses who are children of God, we are probing in tribunal +practice the conditions of a contract for bodily acts. The result +is a sterility of vision that has reduced the great mystery of +human and divine love to an unreal formulation of legal rules. + +The Church’s primary task in marriage today is to proclaim +the full richness of both divine revelation and human +understanding. It is not to inform the world that the Church now +accepts new rules for allowing divorce and remarriage. We +must become less interested in the judicial forum, and more +concerned about a catechesis of marriage. In fact, all that we +say about the indissolubility or dissolubility of marriage implies +a grasp of the preliminary question, what is marriage. It is +toward an understanding of this sacred mystery that we must +now strive together from all the traditions of the Christian +experience. +